Are YOU Emotionally Weak? 13 signs to prove.

Walking through life, facing diverse challenges and obstacles, it’s sometimes interesting to take a look back to see how you dealt with certain situations like getting emotionally weak. Sometimes you may give yourself a great pat on the back for a decision but other times you are left with a pit in your stomach because you feel like a coward for taking the easy way out.

I’m nowhere near unbeatable. None of us are. There are many things I’ve done where I idiotically went with what was easiest, not right. I don’t feel good for those blunders. I have, however, learned several valuable lessons on how to be good, how to be tough, and how to step up when I want to.

Daily I’m constantly reminded either by me or by others, I am perfect. We now and then pick the most comfortable thing, which may not be the correct thing. Below is a list of activities we take which I trust our emotional shortcomings. It’s indeed blunt. Truly to the point. Honestly, I am sure I offend you as it shall make you better.
That’s all I care about and so should you!

You have so much in the tank when you quit. I’m serious. We most of times negotiate for rest, and that upsets me as I do it from time to time. I know that I don’t need the extra sleep. I know that I don’t need 8 hours. I know that I’m tough, and talented of far-fetched action in my life. Yet, occasionally I’m lazy. I see that I shouldn’t put things off, but I do. It’s ridiculous. I consider it’s essential to realize that being worn-out is your body telling you to quit. Sometimes it’s the right move, but many times you can get to a whole new level in productivity if you shrug it off as just a feeling, nothing more.

1.) You simply don’t do what you say you’re going to do –It sounded encouraging when you said you will be in the gym at 6 in the mornings to train when you were at the bar till 2 Midnight. But you didn’t show up and you failed to show up. You are emotionally weak.

2.) You’re afraid of confrontation when it’s necessary – Sticking up for yourself is never as easy as it looks. Asking for a raise when you believe you deserve one, I’m sure, isn’t comfortable. No one on earth appreciates difficult confrontations. So be aware, next time this takes place you should jump right in and get the things done the way you wanted.

3.) You’re late – When being late is what you’re known for, you are emotionally soft. It’s lethargy to plan and unkind. Most of us are guilty at some point or another, but let’s do an improved effort to plan together.

4.) You snooze mobile time and again – I know you didn’t get your 8 hours. The bed feels good, but you have work to do. Get your head up and stomp the grounds in thankfulness for a new day and another chance at life.

5.) You don’t stick to the plan – Do you avoid days in the gym just because you aren’t feeling 100%? Do you make plans to get things done, but get chased by less important jobs? We just go lazy and comprehend we don’t feel like working, but if you can get into the habit of sticking closely to plans you make in life, there’s no chance of failure. Things always sound good on paper until we get to work and understand painful effort is sometimes necessary. Hold it and see things over the exact way.

6.) You don’t display appreciation – Being modest and polite shows me a lot of personalities. You can certainly tell how a soul was raised by the way she/he thanks or takes things for granted. Honest gratitude for someone else’s generosity is a sign of a strong person. Start observing and appreciating small gestures of kind-heartedness. Start giving them out as well.

7.) You can’t handle the truth – Your entire life were you told you are the best? Mommy and daddy consider you are the greatest being in the world, and for them, truly so, you are. You are their best resource, no matter what. But no one else considers you this way. Now and then you just aren’t so remarkable after all. At times you do a shitty job. Next times you just pure suck. But you don’t think so, so when somebody declares it to you openly, it hurts. You can’t take it. You run and hide. Have some modesty for God’s sake. You aren’t that great every now and then. Learn from your limitations, absorb the criticism, and come out as a new and upgraded person.

8.) Your day may be in ruins over somebody else’s belief – You’re too delicate at times. Your team-mate called you a piece of shit as you didn’t make coffee the right way. Does this make you go home and sulk about it on the couch? Did your friend leave in a pissed off mood for no actual reason today? Does your family let you down with their disapproval/negativity? It’s time to end permitting others to have such a big influence on your fate. You are the only one champion of your story. Yes, they may play a big role, but your approach doesn’t need to be brought down for them.

9.) People know you as a complainer– People who complain like there’s no tomorrow when the going gets tough, but are happy and woozy during the good times piss me off like no other? If you like to complain to get into empathy from others, you are emotionally weak. It doesn’t have a place every now and then.

10.) You don’t know how to say no – Occasionally you need to say no, even to great or appealing things, in order to chase a higher calling. Pledging to somewhat should mean you’re in for guaranteed. Don’t feel bad and say yes to all. Be daring. Say no to stuff that isn’t making you and others improved.

11.) You aren’t set to sacrifice your interest for your family or friends – You’re all about you. People might like hanging out with you when all is good, but when a brother or friend needs you in a critical time, you are invisible. Don’t let this be you!

12.) You are happy with being average – Are you okay with being a crappy student? Are you ok with your good, but not an ideal job? Are you okay with being a so-so lover? Okay with fitting into the status quo and being ordinary? I comprehend that we all aren’t natural whiz kid or extraordinarily gifted, but when you can control the effort, your growth, and your wisdom, there is no excuse to be mediocre or immobile in how you take most of the things. Certain features of your being are 100 percent up to you with how good you become, so forget mediocrity, and start refining today.

13.) Quitting is an option – Never quit. It’s easy to quit, I know. We meet with opportunities every day. Never will we escape the clutches of the battle to give in. Never will quit stopping to try and force its way into your skull. Train yourself with small successes. Resolve that you will complete something to the best of your capability. Shout it out loud if you have to! It doesn’t matter whether you are worn-out, starving, icy, or pathetic. You have now decided you will never quit. So do not!

Emotional weakness is accompanied by mental and physical weakness too. So the first thing you need to do to be mentally and physically strong is – Overcome your emotional weakness. Take the scissors of hard work and cut the T from the phrase- I Can’t and very soon you will be transformed to a person who CAN do everything